<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533</id><updated>2011-11-27T19:43:37.246-05:00</updated><category term='L'/><category term='Fortnight (a continuation from &quot;Leaving&quot;)'/><category term='liberty'/><category term='brand statements'/><category term='personal branding'/><category term='warm meal'/><category term='pronounciation'/><category term='language'/><category term='fatherhood'/><category term='careers'/><category term='bread winner'/><category term='manhood'/><category term='Surprises and Goodwill'/><category term='groceries'/><category term='strengths'/><category term='networking'/><category term='Lord'/><category term='esteem'/><category term='life'/><category term='motivation'/><category term='literature'/><category term='choice foods'/><category term='dialogue'/><category term='baby'/><category term='childbirth'/><category term='low lying'/><category term='hungry'/><category term='accents'/><category term='love'/><category term='lofty'/><category term='humor'/><title type='text'>Writing for Life's Sake</title><subtitle type='html'>Write it, in digital light.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>29</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-9048334103651143183</id><published>2010-04-09T06:57:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-13T06:16:31.181-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='careers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal branding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='strengths'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brand statements'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='networking'/><title type='text'>Branding Yourself</title><content type='html'>&lt;meta content="text/html; charset=utf-8" http-equiv="Content-Type"&gt;&lt;/meta&gt;&lt;meta content="Word.Document" name="ProgId"&gt;&lt;/meta&gt;&lt;meta content="Microsoft Word 9" name="Generator"&gt;&lt;/meta&gt;&lt;meta content="Microsoft Word 9" name="Originator"&gt;&lt;/meta&gt;&lt;link href="file:///C:/DOCUME%7E1/kaj/LOCALS%7E1/Temp/msoclip1/01/clip_filelist.xml" rel="File-List"&gt;&lt;/link&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;!-- /* Style Definitions */p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal	{mso-style-parent:"";	margin:0in;	margin-bottom:.0001pt;	mso-pagination:widow-orphan;	font-size:12.0pt;	font-family:"Times New Roman";	mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";}h1	{mso-style-next:Normal;	margin:0in;	margin-bottom:.0001pt;	mso-pagination:widow-orphan;	page-break-after:avoid;	mso-outline-level:1;	tab-stops:153.0pt;	font-size:12.0pt;	font-family:"Times New Roman";	mso-font-kerning:0pt;}a:link, span.MsoHyperlink	{color:blue;	text-decoration:underline;	text-underline:single;}a:visited, span.MsoHyperlinkFollowed	{color:purple;	text-decoration:underline;	text-underline:single;}@page Section1	{size:8.5in 11.0in;	margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in;	mso-header-margin:.5in;	mso-footer-margin:.5in;	mso-paper-source:0;}div.Section1	{page:Section1;}--&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;b&gt;Break from Fiction: Learn About Your Brand &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Taking a break from fiction, I’ve been reading a good book on careers and personal branding, &lt;i&gt;Career Distinction: Standing Out By Building Your Brand&lt;/i&gt; by William Arruda and Kirsten Dixson. It’s a book that gives you knowledge on how to take a proactive approach on managing your career. Take a short break to learn more about personal branding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Why I Liked the Book&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;What I like about this book is that it challenges me to extract my talents, use this potential and stay distinguished through my uniqueness.&amp;nbsp; I want my work to reflect the imaginative and diligent spirit in me.&amp;nbsp; In general, it nudges the reader to activate their network and update their resume.&amp;nbsp; There is information in this book regarding personal branding that leaps off the page. It leads you to asking yourself: &lt;i&gt;What is my personal brand?&lt;/i&gt; Well, it’s not easy to define yourself without a sense that something else is missing.&amp;nbsp; Try the &lt;i&gt;strengths approach&lt;/i&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Personal Brand Statement (PBS)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In line with Marcus Buckingham’s &lt;i&gt;Simply Strengths&lt;/i&gt; approach, developing a personal brand statement involves extracting what appeals to you from within you and using it to write a sentence or two that defines your life’s goals. The book gives great examples of PBS’s to give an idea on how to create one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Why a PBS?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are looking at your PBS daily, it helps you stay focused on your goals.&amp;nbsp; It also helps you perfectly define your objective on resumes and on cover letters, and never miss out on a networking opportunity.&amp;nbsp; Revealed is the fact that you need to build your brand as you build your employer’s brand.&amp;nbsp; In effect, your personal brand goes with you when you change jobs or go solo.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Book also Covers…&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Online Branding – Get a Visual Identity&lt;br /&gt;Ego Surfing – Hey! Hiring Mangers and Clients are Googling You!&lt;br /&gt;Networking – Importance of Building and Maintaining Them&lt;br /&gt;Your Brand Community&lt;br /&gt;Increasing Your Career Karma&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Five Stars* * * * *&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I highly recommend this book to everyone who wants to take action and make career management a habit.&amp;nbsp; Whether you are employed, a business owner or an independent contractor, you have a wealth of information awaiting you.&amp;nbsp; &lt;i&gt;Get this book now and crack the pages!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Credits&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks to our &lt;i&gt;dear friends&lt;/i&gt; who shared this wisdom a year ago. Thanks be to God, &lt;i&gt;"in whom are hid all treasures of wisdom and knowledge."&lt;/i&gt; (Col 2:3)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I leave you with words of wisdom quoted on this book: &lt;i&gt;“We go where our vision is.” - &lt;/i&gt;Joseph Murphy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;*Please leave a comment to let me know what you think about my post or about personal branding.&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Click on links below for more information.&amp;nbsp; You may alternatively copy and paste each URL to your browser.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kirstendixson.com/"&gt;Kirsten Dixson &lt;/a&gt;http://www.kirstendixson.com/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.williamarruda.com/"&gt;William Arruda&lt;/a&gt; http://www.williamarruda.com/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.tmbc.com/mb/biography"&gt;Marcus Buckingham&lt;/a&gt; http://www.tmbc.com/mb/biography&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://careerdistinction.com/"&gt;Career Distinction: &lt;i&gt;Standing Out By Building Your Brand&lt;/i&gt; &lt;/a&gt;http://careerdistinction.com/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-9048334103651143183?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/9048334103651143183/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=9048334103651143183&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/9048334103651143183'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/9048334103651143183'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2010/04/branding-yourself.html' title='Branding Yourself'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-1843431509055602083</id><published>2010-01-31T00:37:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-31T00:42:20.134-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='warm meal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hungry'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice foods'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bread winner'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='groceries'/><title type='text'>wet harvest</title><content type='html'>Got off the taxi &lt;br /&gt;On market street&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Grocery list&lt;/span&gt; in hand&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Dollar stash&lt;/span&gt; in pocket&lt;br /&gt;Ready to drag home the kill&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wheeled in trolley&lt;br /&gt;Wet handles and all&lt;br /&gt;Busy, rainy day&lt;br /&gt;Alone this time&lt;br /&gt;Better-half holding &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;newbie&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hard-to-find items&lt;br /&gt;Ah, easy find today&lt;br /&gt;Having no choice &lt;br /&gt;But to engage mind&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Else&lt;/span&gt; two hours are lost&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dragged home &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;fat kill&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To last a week or two&lt;br /&gt;Extra nickel for &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;taximan&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Patient in the drizzle&lt;br /&gt;A favor for new dad&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let it pour&lt;br /&gt;I’m in with &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;my halves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Choice foods and drink&lt;br /&gt;Fuel for body and mind&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Wisest stock&lt;/span&gt; in winter.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-1843431509055602083?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/1843431509055602083/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=1843431509055602083&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/1843431509055602083'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/1843431509055602083'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2010/01/wet-harvest.html' title='wet harvest'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-5056487831149197801</id><published>2010-01-05T23:53:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-05T23:55:50.794-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Newborn Joy</title><content type='html'>She came forth with a cry,&lt;br /&gt;So sweet, so lovable,&lt;br /&gt;I fell in love again;&lt;br /&gt;her beauty within my sight,&lt;br /&gt;with tears of joy I cried.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The OB and midwives,&lt;br /&gt;were full of praise for her&lt;br /&gt;8lbs, 14oz, 20",&lt;br /&gt;washed, weighed, swaddled,&lt;br /&gt;our gift was in our hands.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Praise God from whom,&lt;br /&gt;all blessings flow;&lt;br /&gt;a newborn baby,&lt;br /&gt;makes you live, &lt;br /&gt;life over again!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-5056487831149197801?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/5056487831149197801/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=5056487831149197801&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/5056487831149197801'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/5056487831149197801'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2010/01/newborn-joy.html' title='Newborn Joy'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-152441247044943138</id><published>2009-12-30T03:06:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-30T14:18:06.227-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Baby Birthday Phase</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Patient As Job&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The final days of waiting for the baby to come seem to drag on end. I’m calling it the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;baby birthday phase.&lt;/span&gt; When it comes to that final stage of labor and birth, every situation is unique, and for every one. Some take deliberate walks to make the process of going into labor speedy; some eat Italian &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;“Eggplant Parmigiana ”&lt;/span&gt;, and I recently heard of this one…taking a few spoonfuls of castor oil, all to nudge the baby into the labor stage. To me, they are opinions (no problem) - optimistic ones.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Have It Your Way&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One doctor mentioned that &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;you could walk all you wanted&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;,&lt;/span&gt; (never mind, tone was okay!) but that won’t cause the baby to come; it would just get you tired and take your mind off anxious thoughts. Another doctor mentioned that &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;if walking were the solution,&lt;/span&gt; they would have every expectant mother walking! Not to mention, the doctors also responded to the eggplant idea by saying “that will make you feel satisfied.” There are enough jokes to go around. Perhaps all soothing mechanisms to the mind and emotions of the mother-to-be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Let's Try That!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Through curiosity, having heard the above over and over, and for an extended period of time, we agreed to try it for the heck of it. We tried two of the above schools of thought: Walked at the mall and at &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Wal-Mart&lt;/span&gt; till we had walked enough. Drove to &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Scalini’s&lt;/span&gt; and savored their specialty &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;eggplant Parmigiana.&lt;/span&gt; Like they said about each situation being unique, that was what it was in black and white.  Walking got us tired and eating made us feel good!  Ok, we will patiently wait until the little munchkin is ready to pop out!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Through The Trimesters&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looking back to the first trimester, time has really flown. With some will power we were able to sit on the good news until it was gone. &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;(phew!)&lt;/span&gt; Then came the best one, life was good. The third came with its fatigue. I share the brunt in all this. I’ve been asked to disclose the baby’s first name in several conversations, but have managed to maintain a strong will on that one. We decided to keep it as a surprise until the baby is born.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Fun Movie Scene&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We watched this movie &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;“The Women”&lt;/span&gt; and there was this scene where the childbearing mum was outright aggressive, telling this baby to come forth, and sending away the cowardly birthing coach to a corner. That was a good laugh especially for us at the point we are in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Plan Hard-&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;But&lt;/span&gt; Be Flexible&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Talking with someone this week, they mentioned, among other things, that one can plan for the baby all they want, but as soon as that kid comes, she will dictate what/where/when. For instance, the kid may sleep all night long (relief!) or cry you out of your sleep every two hours. I hope for the former...but again…we’ll see.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Asante&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks to concerned friends and family have called in to check on us, a very kind gesture indeed. I want them to know how much I appreciate them. Without them checking, I see how it would be a lonely journey. &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Asante! (Thanks)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;---Walking and not eating &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;eggplant parmigiana&lt;/span&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-152441247044943138?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/152441247044943138/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=152441247044943138&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/152441247044943138'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/152441247044943138'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2009/12/baby-birthday-phase.html' title='Baby Birthday Phase'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-6024344486585280041</id><published>2009-11-02T21:56:00.014-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-03T20:39:55.077-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='manhood'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fatherhood'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='childbirth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='baby'/><title type='text'>Fatherhood and Childbirth</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Why the silence?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The months have flown by, and my wife and I are looking forward to the birth of our first baby. Writing, a craft I'm fond of, has been a rare thing to do. In fact, other than the incomplete pile of short stories hanging heavily on my shoulder, I have been hesitant and slow in blogging about the new exciting thing going on in my life: Fatherhood. The ultra-sound says its going to be girl! (99% chance, they say, leaving a margin of error.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Here is one of the ultra-sound images that blew me away:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/Su-qebHuL5I/AAAAAAAAABE/jAKeTcvRNKg/s1600-h/Right+foot.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 261px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/Su-qebHuL5I/AAAAAAAAABE/jAKeTcvRNKg/s320/Right+foot.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399721917893455762" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Disclaimer: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even though writing has been a task, I have been reading ok. Ive been reading "What to Expect When you are Expecting" and looking at the same online. Also, over the last two months, I've enjoyed a nice selection of fiction including Hemingway's "The Old Man and the Sea", Steinbeck's "Of Mice And Men" and Paton's "Cry, the Beloved Country". And of course, Proverbs and Ecclesiastes (I've been struggling with the other books.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;The exciting new thing...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Two weeks ago at week 30, she, the baby, turned her head to face downward in readiness for birth. That's a positive thing to know. Without that, the baby would be in a "breech" position, which calls for a c-section. Head must come out first during normal delivery.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My most exciting time has been when she moves what is evidently her legs, like she is kneading with her heels. It appears to be both ticklish to my wife, and at times its startling, especially at night. She has stopped short when I rub my hand over; I learned they realize a change in surface temperature on the area of contact and cease activity. Funny thing, they continue gamboling once your hand has been removed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Useful Materials&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reading, doctor visits, getting a tip or two from those that have been there before ... all that is helpful. A most helpful book has been "What to Expect when Expecting", outlining week by week what on earth is going on in there!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Watching the 3D animation videos on the status of the baby each week has also been very educative. I have found this site to be helpful: &lt;a href="http://www.babycenter.com/pregnancy"&gt;babycenter.com&lt;/a&gt;. For instance, if I need to know whats happening on week 32, I use the pregnancy grid below the pregnancy navigation tab to select the week, and clicking on that will anchor me to all of the information pertaining to &lt;a href="http://www.babycenter.com/6_your-pregnancy-32-weeks_1121.bc?intcmp=timeline"&gt;week 32&lt;/a&gt;. There is also a link to &lt;a href="http://www.babycenter.com/2_inside-pregnancy-weeks-28-to-37_3658874.bc"&gt;watch the inside development&lt;/a&gt; of the baby (with audio on it) embedded within the text.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Intelligent Design&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God is truly a genius. The way that baby is formed and grows in the womb, getting nourishment and developing into a real person, is supernatural. &lt;br /&gt;Refer to Psalm 139. I like vs 13-16(New International Version):&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;"For you created my inmost being;&lt;br /&gt;you knit me together in my mother's womb.&lt;br /&gt;I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made...&lt;br /&gt;My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place&lt;br /&gt;...your eyes saw my unformed body. &lt;br /&gt;All the days ordained for me were written in your book.."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Educative Film on Childbirth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We just completed watching a film recommended to us. "The Business of Being Born." (You can buy instant online download from amazon) On such issues as childbirth, I like the conservationist approach of "let the body do what it should naturally do."  It is appalling to see designer childbirths. What? There is a popular culture of planning the date, place, etc, etc. I was also amazed at those who elect to have home births. I know that's a no-no on my front. For those that don't get the snowball of medication, etc (watch that film), it's a courageous thing. Now, that's what a celebrity birth would be. Hospital birth, on the other hand, is helpful, especially to those that have encountered "breech" or other complications. Emergencies are catered to very well, and it does save lives. It shouldn't be too commercialized though. Is every laboring mum and baby in danger like they seem to suggest in the media? Thinking hard about that!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;At Last&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing about this makes me feel far much better. I see there is still so much to learn, and some of it won't need book knowledge or hearsay! I discern it will naturally come when I hear that cry; when I see that tiny little thing; when i change the diapers or wash the baby. Getting up at night to check on them (no trouble, was once a night owl!) Let the God given instincts kick in. I hold truly to wise words: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;"Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Proverbs 22:6    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stay well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing from the Fatherhood Fort; &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;albeit&lt;/span&gt; Manhood&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-6024344486585280041?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/6024344486585280041/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=6024344486585280041&amp;isPopup=true' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/6024344486585280041'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/6024344486585280041'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2009/11/fatherhood-and-childbirth.html' title='Fatherhood and Childbirth'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/Su-qebHuL5I/AAAAAAAAABE/jAKeTcvRNKg/s72-c/Right+foot.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-4164639874579924505</id><published>2009-08-09T07:33:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-09T07:52:03.528-04:00</updated><title type='text'>1 story told by 10 writers</title><content type='html'>[B, F(Raystylus), Robert K, Tony W, Bryan, Davie K, John, F. Kiragu, even Kaj &amp; Tsion]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It started with a picture, drawn by many hands. Each was to add to the sketch until it became a full picture. Not necessarily a meaningful piece of art, but one that must paint a mental image to the observer’s mind. Isn’t that what you would call a masterpiece?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then B birthed a brilliant idea. Why, lets write a story, each one must contribute a sentence and pass it on to the next person. And it went on and on. This is what we came up with. (Forget syntax, just get the imaginative idea we were extrapolating…) I posted it here verbatim.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once a upon a time, in a far, far away land, THERE LIVED A MAN whose goal was to find out what the real meaning of life was. He searched and searched, over the mountains and beyond the seas UNTIL HE MADE THE MOST UNFORGETTABLE ENCOUNTER…HE was right where he started…after walking around the world. It was round.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;His inquisitive mind, coupled by his enthusiasm gave him the willpower to succeed. However, He had one leg, which made moving around hard. So he thought he cannot get a regular job unless he got a prosthetic leg, which he had to make himself out of oak tree. But even with one leg and the slim possibility of a prosthetic leg, his will was immovable. AFTER ALL, HE DID WALK AROUND THE WORLD. Thoughts of Giving up was crossed his mind. At that point he met a girl, who was a carpenter. She made him the perfect prosthetic leg. AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER! in a tree house. A prosthetic tree that was later infested by termites. NOW HE MUST CONTINUE HIS SEARCH FOR THE MEANING OF LIFE. “Where to start? He thought of climbing up the tree but he remembered that he only had one leg and they were about to be foreclosed on their tree. ALL SEEMED GLOOMY UNTIL THEY HEARD ABOUT…a sale on a senior citizen scooters but that did not move them. He had not finished paying for his prosthetic leg. Surprisingly she became pregnant, a prosthetic pregnancy. There was a government stimulus check for prosthetic pregnancies!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(continued?)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-4164639874579924505?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/4164639874579924505/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=4164639874579924505&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/4164639874579924505'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/4164639874579924505'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2009/08/1-story-told-by-10-writers.html' title='1 story told by 10 writers'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-1374564451012652952</id><published>2009-05-05T23:48:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-14T21:49:25.742-04:00</updated><title type='text'>TWISTS</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Short stories collection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Only a five-dollar bill. That’s all he had on his hand. The debit card had nothing on it, as the account was already on overdraft. No credit card to fall back to either - The bank called it “overdraft protection.” Every last one was in default, even the department store cards. For what could a man not borrow for these days? He blamed it on bad management of funds. No budget, No plan! Over time, too much had fallen too far behind, that he saw no use in trying to minimize or pay on debt. Rave Damsey! He loved to change the AM channel on his car radio, and stayed away from the weeknight business shows on cable TV, Ouze Srzman, frugal Hark Cloward and the like on TV. “Aa-gghh***!” he often said when he heard them ranting on their shows….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things got to their worst when, as no surprise to him, the 2004 Dodge Intrepid was taken back by the bank, under the disgrace of the much dreaded rippo-man! “Man, I hate that rippoman sucker!” The repossession came the very day he was to appear before the judge for a minor traffic violation. Many times, he had “jumped” the orange light in haste to get to work, or someplace he was never on time for, even after the rush! “I owe I owe, off to work I go!” This was the dithyramb of people like he, debt to their eyeballs! Now he was somewhat indebted to the state for violation of traffic law.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Talk of getting late for anything else but not to appear in front of a judge or get late for work. Sustaining the job at the call center he was with for the last 14 months was based on how time honoring you were. Get late for even a minute, then in three strikes you’re out. Stay on “after call work”, buying time to take a breath after a stress call - that irate customer that cursed at you and your grandma for refusing to remove a $35 late fee - and you get written up for trying to steal company time. They don’t play! With such a high turnover, that’s why their training department was ever busy, one training class after another. And now they have a part time trainer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And the judge, you need no telling to know you get more than justice when you dishonor the establishment by being late for your small case! Yet this day, when he was scheduled to appear before a judge at 9am, his car was gone. He had to call &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Atco Taxi Service&lt;/span&gt;, and part with the $5 before the next check came in. His roommates had told him of a plan that always worked. Show up for your citation and hope the officer that wrote you up will be too busy to show up. Deny your minor traffic violation and the citation is discarded. Twice or thrice his roommates’ traffic offenses had been purged that way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dialing the taxi dispatch number, he spoke as quickly and as clearly as he could since his cell phone minutes were to be used sparingly in these hard times. Nobody wants to pay extra for something that simple. They are not my friends anyway, he always said. They, the taxi-men, all had an accent. “Not like mine, though!”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hector the driver picked him up in a jiffy. In such situations, there was no need to attempt a conversation, unless you didn't mind some scanty English. &lt;br /&gt;“Como Estas, senor?” &lt;br /&gt;“Great. Cool. Asante. Bien!” All these words ran through his mind, but he must have said only one of them in response to the greeting. He was a quick talker and seemed rude in the way he blurted out greetings. The cut-the-chase and lets move on kinda approach as always. Who cares anyway? This is America. The Latino beats jammed the taxi, and his mind went off into the events that led to his appearing before a judge this morning….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That Day&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That day, he thought twice about speeding past the white minivan - that’s how the cops get you. But the van was so typical – don’t you hate it when you have to drag behind a van like a wagon harnessed to an ox? 45 mph, I mean, who drives that slowly when trying to get to work? Vans also tend to slow down as they approach an intersection that bears traffic lights. Just in case the lights change from amber to red, vans are sure to stop. This was a vexing behavior he felt he could never tolerate. Did not these mums and grandpas realize how annoying it was to other motorists when they 'lazied' around like that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He feels the lights are going to change to amber any minute now, and decides against his better judgment to speed up and beat the lights. The lights indeed change to amber. He does not realize that an officer was patrolling the area, just in case a traffic issue needed his attention, as was the case many times during the morning rush. He crosses the intersection closely behind the white Odyssey van, maybe too close. With his thoughts on the black county police car, knowing what is about to happen next, he does not realize he has failed to slow down after passing the junction. The van is not only slowing down, but also seems to want to pull to the side of the street. Next he instinctively brakes and smells some gas he never wants to smell again. It all goes so swiftly that he does not realize what has happened. Glass shattered, airbags deployed! And he thought he had braked all he could. In this confusion, he hopes he is still alive. He also hopes he wasn’t driving his roommate’s car today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; ***&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-1374564451012652952?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/1374564451012652952/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=1374564451012652952&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/1374564451012652952'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/1374564451012652952'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2009/05/twists-short-stories-collection.html' title='TWISTS'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-8452178157734257746</id><published>2009-02-24T23:50:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-24T23:51:47.252-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accents'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pronounciation'/><title type='text'>ACCENT (continued)</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;My Accent&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Going back to my accent, I have been psychologically prepared to defend my said “pronunciation error”- that fraction that ever happens. When I’m not pronouncing words as my counterparts would want to hear them, I shrug and say “maybe im stuck up on the Queen’s English!” Or when I don’t pronounce some words the exact way the advertiser’s I encounter at work are used to, I try to humor them by stating that I’ll try to say it differently (maybe thinking the whole time – if only you could listen). At one time, I had a hard time telling one good guy about a “brochure” – he couldn’t get it, till I spelled it out by the letter. I try to move on, and only explain it when need be- when asked to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I believe there is so much good in being who I am (for what else can I be if not myself?) or how I speak. Character comes first. Hence, I’m happy about my English-African Accent in an industry where English majors and eloquent American accents prosper. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like many fascinated by the question of language before me, I also call it “African English.” Most of my encounters with clients in the advertising and creative writing world are still fascinating, save for one here and there who lose you based on first impressions. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As to where one’s accent is from, one needs no shame in saying in no uncertain terms that it is a Canadian, Nigerian, Kenyan, Jamaican, or even an Indian accent. We cannot all speak in one accent. Accent, being the unique manner in which we pronounce words is by no means wrong! That’s one of the right things about you! But to use your accent as a means to not excel- that is wrong. Love yourself enough to do the necessary to learn and apply certain intonations and use of words only to be understood, not to be accepted! Im serious! That’s what I do!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As to where my accent is from, I needed no further prompting or affirmation to tell. In fact, the thought on her mind (the nice lady who prompted this discussion) was that smart Indian student in her class, with an accent. Then she said, “You have a beautiful accent!”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Its hard to hide an accent, as much as you cannot hide your skin color or change the prints on your hand, DNA, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In Dr. King’s philosophy of moral justice, we learn not to judge a person by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character. In today’s context, avoiding superficiality and searching for truth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;The Accent&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The way I see it, it’s a good thing to be told you have an accent. As many say “where did the tan come from?” when one returns from vacationing in some tropical beach. A friend of mine is keen to say “Don’t apologize to anyone for mispronouncing the word “burger” or “park!” Stress it enough to be understood and don’t second-guess yourself when clarification is requested. Those who say “huh” in that drive-through speaker are simply trying to understand – they seem to always be caught off guard. And also, be the one to ask “please say that one more time...” to grasp what someone with a different accent said. It is you I’m more concerned about because it is you I have seen uknowingly hiding your true self- Unconsciously.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For God’s sake, if you were to be ashamed of your accent one more day, you are missing out on a special part of your life, and you may be trading your heritage for the interstices of &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;inbetweenness&lt;/span&gt;. (Not fun!) No heritage is as good as the other, so lets embrace language and culture both ways, not neglecting one and championing the other. After all, truth &amp; tradition go hand in hand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember, an &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;accent&lt;/span&gt; is just a difference in the way we stress syllables!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-8452178157734257746?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/8452178157734257746/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=8452178157734257746&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/8452178157734257746'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/8452178157734257746'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2009/02/accent-continued.html' title='ACCENT (continued)'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-4697799734491091556</id><published>2009-02-23T23:13:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-24T22:39:24.995-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accents'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='esteem'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='language'/><title type='text'>ACCENTS AND ESTEEM:</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;So, where is your accent from?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Accent: According to Wikipedia, in linguistics, “an accent is a manner of pronunciation of a language. “&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Merriam-Webster’s online Dictionary defines it thus:&lt;br /&gt;1: an articulative effort giving prominence to one syllable over adjacent syllables ; also : the prominence thus given a syllable&lt;br /&gt;2: a distinctive manner of expression: as a: an individual's distinctive or characteristic inflection, tone, or choice of words —usually used in plural b: a way of speaking typical of a particular group of people and especially of the natives or residents of a region &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lets also see how they define language:&lt;br /&gt;a: the words, their pronunciation, and the methods of combining them used and understood by a community&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Recently, way through a business conversation, someone asked me, “So, where is your accent from?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where is my accent from?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At moment of discovery, I learned about the right esteem and pride in one’s heritage. I think it was Okot P’Bitek in “Artist the Ruler” who defined culture as a “philosophy lived and celebrated by a people” (paraphrased) also stating that a people’s language carries their culture. It appears to me our way of speaking is influenced by our culture, yes, our cultural roots (despite education level and westernization) and acquired culture by what’s going on around us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is said and written (eg in my wikianswers.com finding) “Language is arbitrary.” And that no set of rules are said to be the “right.” I say this with a measure of caution because in linguistics and phonetics, there are principles I still hold firmly to and consciously fight for. Many I speak with on the subject of language agree that the threat to any language is the complacency and laxity that leads to bad spelling, the growing anti-reading culture and Webster’s relaxing the rules and adding words like “Bling Bling” to the dictionary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Language, again in wiki, is crowned up well; it “typically refers only to expressions of reason which can be understood by other people, most obviously by speaking.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I see the co-relation between one’s culture and language, and the mainstream role one’s language plays in day-to-day life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I also begin to see how loss of necessary pride in one’s language, “their way of speaking”, can lead down the unwanted path of bearing an uneasy yoke and discomfort under the tyranny of being phony. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;More coming up on this discussion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-4697799734491091556?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/4697799734491091556/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=4697799734491091556&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/4697799734491091556'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/4697799734491091556'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2009/02/accents-and-esteem.html' title='ACCENTS AND ESTEEM:'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-3334026139403064302</id><published>2008-12-29T23:54:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-29T23:59:19.661-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='humor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dialogue'/><title type='text'>What I should write: MOTIVATION &amp; HUMOR</title><content type='html'>I’ve had this &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;contention&lt;/span&gt; – You write from internal dialogue, or backed by dialogue with others. I say in dialogue, Motivation &amp; Humor drive life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Marcus Buckingham, the originator of a social revolution called “simply strengths” points out the need to focus on strengths and downplay weaknesses. A friend recently said in speaking “you must set yourself on fire” - regarding being so deliberate about one’s passion. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Radio talk host Dave Ramsey has a good command in strong language. You can listen to laugh or learn, whether robust or feeble. I particularly get amused by his use of the word “tweet!”and “goober!” when speaking of ignorant or naïve characters. Here are some common statements:&lt;br /&gt; “…tell them to jump off the creek” – as regards some relentless creditors in pursuit&lt;br /&gt;“…they need to grow a brain” – as regards the same, acting irrational&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is always a way of talking about the nemesis on daily context. Those words, though satirized, stir up something.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jim Carey, a choice comic, can impersonate in a manner that appeals deeply and long lastingly. Humor me! Days later, I go about laughing, and end up amusing my wife. What jokes! Try watching “Fun with Dick &amp; Jane”…the sign of the times. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Globerdyne tanked!” - on the job layoff&lt;br /&gt;“Stha-tis-tics!” - speaking on TV&lt;br /&gt;“Nobody follow us, we are dangerous criminals! Argggh!” - at the coffee shop hold-up&lt;br /&gt;“I’ve been waiting for you for twenty five years..(bite) Arrghh! That hurts! …The nazi’s used to say that…” – contending with security, at the store to rob.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Steve Harvey on his morning show:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Hollering BOO! from the bushes cost him a rack of teeth, for he did not know I had a crowbar in my hand.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Harvey says he was born to tell jokes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pastor David Cooper, in talking about taking up the character of Christ, envelopes a key point thus:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Talking about obedience – ask the married men here. After a few years of marriage, you wonder why they are mellow!” (Uproar in laughter)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;***&lt;br /&gt;Summoning back statements of Augustine in “Confessions” :&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[1.9.14]- “…Small as I was, I prayed with no slight earnestness that I might not be beaten at school. And when you did not heed me- for that would have been giving me over to my folly- my elders and even my parents too, who wished me no ill, treated my stripes as a joke, though they were then a great and grievous ill to me.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also consider this well explained prose:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[1.9.15]- “…However, my mind was absorbed only in play, and I was punished for this by those who were doing the same things themselves. But the idling of our elders is called business; the idling of boys, though quite like it, is punished by those same elders, and no one pities either the boys or the men. For will any common sense observer agree that I was rightly punished as a boy for playing ball- just because this hindered me from learning more quickly those lessons by means of which, as a man, I could play at more shameful games? And did he by whom I was beaten do anything different? When he was worsted in some small controversy with a fellow teacher, he was more tormented by anger and envy than I was when beaten by a playmate in the ball game.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;contemplation&lt;/span&gt;- sporting for boys or men, writers, actors, preachers or radio hosts… there lies plenty of motivation and humor to go by in this life. Much if it makes lots of sense, and we ought to hear and to laugh, for in laughing at the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;item&lt;/span&gt;, we are laughing off our insecurities and feebleness, and striving not to be like “&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;them&lt;/span&gt;.”&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-3334026139403064302?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/3334026139403064302/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=3334026139403064302&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3334026139403064302'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3334026139403064302'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/12/what-i-should-write-motivation-humor.html' title='What I should write: MOTIVATION &amp; HUMOR'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-1426586950614625143</id><published>2008-12-27T15:37:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-29T22:37:21.868-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Finding the Words: THE LABORS OF PUBLIC SPEAKING</title><content type='html'>The floods of inadequacy&lt;br /&gt;Burst through the barriers of my mind&lt;br /&gt;In trying to speak, I spoke not&lt;br /&gt;But utterances, short of stuttering&lt;br /&gt;Came forth from the deeming slate;&lt;br /&gt;Arrested, Averted- by the blank expressions of the crowd&lt;br /&gt;Their countenance being a window&lt;br /&gt;To their minds, their thoughts to see.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Propped against the podium, yea, the wall&lt;br /&gt;Eyes gliding over a hundred head-tops&lt;br /&gt;I saw a thin, long line-&lt;br /&gt;A narrow unending thread, albeit of ingenial thoughts,&lt;br /&gt;Just as should have been&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Laying down the empty slate&lt;br /&gt;Tagging onto the thread,&lt;br /&gt;I caught relief from its clear rightness&lt;br /&gt;And peace started to sweep in, settling my soul.&lt;br /&gt;Lips found their words, as glottal vibrations,&lt;br /&gt;Oozed out the sound of the intended first words&lt;br /&gt;of my brief speech. More followed&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The dramatic silence, now broken by proverbial word&lt;br /&gt;The brows, lowered in gradual slow sequence;&lt;br /&gt;Now in full throttle, my speech reaches all&lt;br /&gt;Not with mere persuasiveness and rhetoric&lt;br /&gt;But with common sense – the best virtue&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The speech is brief, but its spirit unending &lt;br /&gt;For in getting their attention, &lt;br /&gt;and engaging hearts &amp; minds alike,&lt;br /&gt;This perpetual dialogue reached their conscience&lt;br /&gt;And so becoming common purpose&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I rest assured my fifteen minutes of dialogue&lt;br /&gt;With minds- not obstinate ears&lt;br /&gt;Will yield the fruit of common purpose&lt;br /&gt;Three of these minutes were spent in gibberish-&lt;br /&gt;The threat to any unspoken unseen ideas&lt;br /&gt;The other dozen, gladly in good outpouring.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now comes the radioactive propagation&lt;br /&gt;Of virtue and dignity&lt;br /&gt;Not of the speaker,&lt;br /&gt;But of the ideas,&lt;br /&gt;And no mind will waste away!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-1426586950614625143?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/1426586950614625143/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=1426586950614625143&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/1426586950614625143'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/1426586950614625143'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/12/finding-words-labors-of-public-speaking.html' title='Finding the Words: THE LABORS OF PUBLIC SPEAKING'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-2228477914650566918</id><published>2008-11-11T20:21:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-11T20:47:41.074-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='low lying'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Lord'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lofty'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='literature'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='liberty'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='L'/><title type='text'>L</title><content type='html'>Tongue gets fluent by the day - FFH* &lt;br /&gt;Amidst sly syllables, enunciating “L” in context &lt;br /&gt;Yet keeping memories of it &lt;br /&gt;Of my clansmen in far land of Tea –&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Chai Yetu**&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Amidst the Lofty and Low Lying, &lt;br /&gt;Have beheld true Liberty&lt;br /&gt;Ever will it be that meaningful rhetoric &lt;br /&gt;Flavor life and feed subconscious.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My Love reclines by me,&lt;br /&gt;In chilling autumn eve&lt;br /&gt;One flesh, two bodies - FFH*&lt;br /&gt;Where bullets cry, but freedom flies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Amidst a critical mass, &lt;br /&gt;Pursuing Liberty, Literature, Life &lt;br /&gt;Ceaseless to my Love and my Lord -&lt;br /&gt;carrying the L’s in Life, in new land.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*FFH: Far From Home&lt;br /&gt;**Chai Yetu: Means "Our Tea" in Swahili.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-2228477914650566918?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/2228477914650566918/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=2228477914650566918&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/2228477914650566918'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/2228477914650566918'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/11/l.html' title='L'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-3464960026213013421</id><published>2008-09-30T00:05:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-30T00:34:36.304-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Surprises and Goodwill'/><title type='text'>Surprises and Goodwill</title><content type='html'>What kind of surprises? I’ll tell you they were good ones. Many times, in my view, the groom is as solemn as the words that are said over and again about being “the priest” “the head of the house.” The inherent role that comes with winning the heart of a lovely maid may seem like a juggernaut to him. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The presiding Reverend had let us know during the pre-marital counseling sessions that he likes a joyous mood on a wedding, especially from the bride and groom. He bid me to come up with some wonderful prose and poetry, for I seemed to be one of such making.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;“Just let it be lively!” Having wed many before, he did not like that solemn look that many defaulted to on wedding days. That was a good surprise to us that he liked what appealed to us with certainty. He liked the entire wedding party to have joyous expressions-in their eyes as well as in happy smiles. That explains the beautiful smiles and stupendous verse on that day and on tape.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Back to the solemn groom-I mean, not for one moment was I solemnly sad with the thought of the “big” dutiful life ahead. Neither did I see that from my fair lady. I took the Reverend’s advice to take it easy and enjoy this day. My advice to all dudes who plan to marry- don’t take yourself to task on your wedding day. Forget the what ifs. You guys know what I mean. That’s probably the source of cold feet. Ego and confidence may be shrunk by the sudden thought of duty and responsibility ahead- mouths to feed, backs to cloth, “stuff” to buy, bla! bla! bla!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think the only time I was anxious on this day, was when at the agreed time the bridal party had not arrived. The groomsmen also took a while to get there. Apparently the bridal party had been held up by some unprecedented traffic jam. Trying to call them on phone would have been of no use. Why, the friends already there with me at the church were quick to take away my cell phone. They asked me to quit being anxious. One old friend indulged me with the on-goings of life since the last time we had seen each other in the final year of college. In no time, we heard the distinguished sounds:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beep! beep!bee-peep!&lt;br /&gt;Beep! beep!bee-peep!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The honking and talking of the horns from a dozen cars announced the arrival of the bride. This was not only a tradition but a good sign that she was here. And to know it was my day and she was here for me increased my joy. Anytime now, the ceremony was to begin.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My bride surprised me with broad smiles and touching words, and I likewise found it easy to beam back with calm joy and expound the intricacies of my love for her. We felt a connection beyond the sight of the eye and the other senses. Knowing how far we had come over a span of six good years mutually solidified the vows with all intent. I could see it in her the sense of eternal security and the devotedness to love and cherish at all times.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another surprise was how we danced nobody’s business. This song “Nimetafuta Milima Mabondeni Sikupata Mwingine” (translated from Swahili, I searched high and low and could not find another like you.) Its like no-one was watching, and on my part I just let loose and danced to the popular selection of music by the Dj, an old friend. And the good old Mugithi dance (train dance) by Kayamba Afrika. Aha!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps people were also surprised at how timely and coordinated the entire ceremony and reception ended up. In our experience, weddings did not begin or end on time. This was not going to be one of those same old, same old. If one came late this time, that was it. There were no repetitious ceremonies and uncertain speeches to add delay. We felt it for an old friend who drove in just after we had left the reception. He had rushed from out of town to catch the cutting of the cake. He had to follow us to the hotel, to at least shake our hands before we checked in. He managed to get us right before we went for a round of pictures in the sunset.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The food, décor and cake were so good. We don’t remember the taste of the food, but we hear it all the time. The hotel suite, presidential suite (they told us) was nice. So were the hotels at the Coast and in the Rift Valley*. The flights and road trips were so good, the last time I had such wide travel was while at the airlines as cabin crew. Most of these events were arranged in my absence. My dearest made fitting connections at home in our planning process, while I breathed the cold winter air and worked above the normal shift a day to make things happen. I was affirmative to the plans in my absence, and was never disappointed when they unfolded - The joys of long distance relationships! To be honest, all these were good surprises because we planned them in my absence. Nothing went wrong. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As you can tell, a wedding day is such an important day, loaded with meaning and purpose. The marriage is the real deal - you walk the talk. There is much that can be written, but that may remain in a private journal. I’m sure my sweetheart would appreciate if I kept the rest away from a blogspot. Ha!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We held back no virtues to each other through the good intentions and sacrifices that followed. Being far from home and working hard from the both ends to be together speedily, what we agreed on and presented to God in unimaginable measure kept us going. Five months apart! In retrospect, I can borrow from the miracles of the past when I feel like i'm going under. Tough fiber helps one survive the storms. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember that woman seated next to me on the flight stuck on the runway in Heathrow? I’ll say a little about her on the next piece. Also, lots of gratitude to a good friend, JKSM. Coming up!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*Good provinces to visit in Kenya loaded with tourism sites.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-3464960026213013421?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/3464960026213013421/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=3464960026213013421&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3464960026213013421'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3464960026213013421'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/09/surprises-and-goodwill.html' title='Surprises and Goodwill'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-3410475505504004915</id><published>2008-08-23T01:52:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-23T02:22:25.024-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fortnight (a continuation from &quot;Leaving&quot;)'/><title type='text'>Fortnight</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;A fortnight before this day, the pretty ladies in &lt;i&gt;olive green&lt;/i&gt; and sharp &lt;i&gt;gentlemen&lt;/i&gt; in black suits stood at the steps of the church altar to bear witness. It was amidst large smiles and leaps of joy. It was our wedding day!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;With the prompting of the wedding coordinator, my bride walked in &lt;i&gt;gracefully&lt;/i&gt;, accompanied by her parents arm-to-arm. Her smile had never been so radiant, and her dimples never so &lt;i&gt;deep&lt;/i&gt;. I could see her gleaming countenance halfway through the isle, as she came towards me. &lt;i&gt;God’s Greatest Gift, &lt;/i&gt;the matrimonial theme song, blared sweetly like the trumpet blows wind from its insides.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;Her snow-white gown yielded christening her &lt;i&gt;“my&lt;/i&gt; &lt;i&gt;angel!.”&lt;/i&gt; Her rich black hair was just right: styled with miniature silver-sprayed lightening flashes and &lt;i&gt;pearl-headed&lt;/i&gt; pins sticking in, a bulk of her hair craftily formed a tiara at the top of her head.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;Cold feet? I had no idea what cold feet were. You are either ready or not. No &lt;i&gt;in-betweens&lt;/i&gt;. Besides, if a bride beams a smile as lively and joyful as that on 3:16*, you bet your secret vulnerabilities will be revealed, and fears cast away. There is just a mutual connection that words may not give justice to.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;The pastor reiterated the ordinances of the good book, the &lt;i&gt;Bible. &lt;/i&gt;By its precepts, that we had both abounded, we were to cherish them and live them ever more. The &lt;i&gt;word&lt;/i&gt; was perfect, reviving the soul. It brought joy to our hearts. It was light to our eyes, enduring forever.** &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;The theme verse was recited by the eloquence of my sister-in-law, my brother’s wife. I mean, her sound &lt;i&gt;enunciation&lt;/i&gt; of Phil 4:8 is almost as memorable as the words.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;Light flashes from the &lt;i&gt;state-of-the-art &lt;/i&gt;cameras seemed to tally to the nearest thousand.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;There was a nod here and there from the &lt;i&gt;party&lt;/i&gt; that told the events were unfolding well.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Yet, there were surprises ahead that you would expect to see on a day like this…&lt;i&gt;(to be continued)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;*March 16&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;** (Psalm 19 &lt;i&gt;paraphrased&lt;/i&gt;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-3410475505504004915?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/3410475505504004915/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=3410475505504004915&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3410475505504004915'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3410475505504004915'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/08/fortnight.html' title='Fortnight'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-8261355361087778539</id><published>2008-07-31T21:56:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-01T23:20:51.767-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Leaving</title><content type='html'>&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; I have  been crafting this story for months. I'll &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;publish&lt;/span&gt; it here in phases.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Leaving.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;This was the second time I had traveled &lt;i&gt;trans-Atlantic&lt;/i&gt;, and before long, it was time to go back.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It felt as though it was a return to misery.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Leaving the treasured would be as miserable as the separation of a limb from one's body.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;The sand dunes in the Sahara* desert, 35,000 feet below, were a beautiful sight to behold.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Yea, from a bird’s eye view, the vast golden landscape was as bare as a wall.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;You can hardly find a human dwelling there.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;A teardrop that had welled up on my left eye slipped and found its way to the oval &lt;/span&gt;perspex&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt; window. It now looked as a patch smudged from a little sponge.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The tear from my right eye spread to all sides and drew out from the left side of my right eye, sliding down across my nose.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I was a rare one to tear. This was an exceptional day.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;I almost turned to the quiet &lt;i&gt;Caucasian&lt;/i&gt; lady seated to my right to tell her how dampened my spirits were. I wanted the advice of a stranger.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;How she made it through all those years? She seemed seasoned, almost my mother’s age, if not the same. I was not to utter my sorrowful words to her until our Boeing 747 was held in traffic at a runway on London’s Heathrow Airport while my connection flight in terminal 4 to Atlanta was gearing to leave. Or so I thought.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:12;"  &gt;What was on my mind, and now in my heart, were the events that fell two weeks before today.&lt;span style=""&gt; ..&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(to be continued)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Sahara*-&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; African desert.World's largest hot desert and world's second largest desert after Antarctica.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-8261355361087778539?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/8261355361087778539/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=8261355361087778539&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/8261355361087778539'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/8261355361087778539'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/07/leaving-home.html' title='Leaving'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-6646319053585731313</id><published>2008-07-23T23:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-23T23:12:01.829-04:00</updated><title type='text'>THE PAINTER'S STUDIO.</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;The quest for identity&lt;br /&gt;a mind of curiosity,&lt;br /&gt;purposed to gaze&lt;br /&gt;on artwork so raw.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;An artist’s pedestal&lt;br /&gt;the house of imagery,&lt;br /&gt;where hues on canvas&lt;br /&gt;juxtaposed metaphors. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;In silent scrutiny,&lt;br /&gt;best canvas collector,&lt;br /&gt;was baffled by blows&lt;br /&gt;of sharp contrast.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Canvas shreds-&lt;br /&gt;formed raggedy hills,&lt;br /&gt;spilt paint-&lt;br /&gt;dried in rainbow motifs. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Old sketches-&lt;br /&gt;sprawled like floor rugs,&lt;br /&gt;blunt pencils-&lt;br /&gt;poked&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;like dull thorns.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Rugged portrayal-&lt;br /&gt;has secret betrayal,&lt;br /&gt;a studio so lowly-&lt;br /&gt;yet works so fine.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;For fine bristle strokes&lt;br /&gt;she sought fine settings,&lt;br /&gt;her truth was shamed&lt;br /&gt;denial never won.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;The painter sighed&lt;br /&gt;fought back emotions,&lt;br /&gt;welled eyes held drops&lt;br /&gt;but gushed like water.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Grasp mangled workshops&lt;br /&gt;yield glossy finesse,&lt;br /&gt;the license of artists&lt;br /&gt;Your utmost value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:12;"  &gt;Copyright ©2002 FK&lt;b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;Revised 2008&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-6646319053585731313?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/6646319053585731313/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=6646319053585731313&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/6646319053585731313'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/6646319053585731313'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/07/painters-studio.html' title='THE PAINTER&apos;S STUDIO.'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-7137355867347617945</id><published>2008-07-04T13:37:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-04T13:43:45.326-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Of  Swords and Words</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;On bended knee,&lt;br /&gt;Palms mirrored in unison,&lt;br /&gt;Whispering lips mumble&lt;br /&gt;Vapors of ascending words &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;Will unforeseen winds,&lt;br /&gt;Disperse the candid supplication,&lt;br /&gt;Of wailing hearts,&lt;br /&gt;like bottlenecks of whispering lips?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;Will petition repetition&lt;br /&gt;Reap rippled reverberation&lt;br /&gt;Surpass low spirit&lt;br /&gt;Vanquish in valor?&lt;span style=""&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;The knight’s moment&lt;br /&gt;Yielded by strength of spirit&lt;br /&gt;Comes from pure clash&lt;br /&gt;Of swords and words.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="sensecontent"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="sensecontent"&gt;Firmness the armor&lt;br /&gt;Of crouching cavalier&lt;br /&gt;For ancient of days&lt;br /&gt;Overbears malignant host.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-7137355867347617945?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/7137355867347617945/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=7137355867347617945&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/7137355867347617945'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/7137355867347617945'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/07/of-swords-and-words.html' title='Of  Swords and Words'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-3291495251669050100</id><published>2008-06-23T20:01:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-23T20:57:50.078-04:00</updated><title type='text'>What “Raystylus” means.</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;A friend asked how I came up with the name “Raystylus” for my blogspot. That’s a good question. Since I did not address that the first day, its only fair to do so now since it’s effortless.&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;I have another given name &lt;b&gt;“Ray”&lt;/b&gt; that many do      not know about. Well, I have not used it since...since &lt;i&gt;forever&lt;/i&gt;…so      now it’s my blog name. I told my friend not to call me Ray unless we're      blogging.&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Then comes the second part &lt;b&gt;“Stylus”&lt;/b&gt; meaning a pen. I used      it because I like the doublespeak proverb “The stylus is more potent than      the claymore” referring to the proverb “The pen is mightier than the      sword.”&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;Hence &lt;b&gt;Ray&lt;/b&gt;+&lt;b&gt;Stylus &lt;/b&gt;= &lt;b&gt;Raystylus!&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;Grammatical correctness.&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;A rebuttal before the critic thinks&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;: Would it not have been Ray’s Stylus then, since it refers to my pen? Well, I chose to keep one “s” after Ray to avoid the “&lt;i&gt;ss&lt;/i&gt;” in between. Sounds better!&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;My kind of proverbs.&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;Old sayings have been relied on for many years, and some scholarly fellows have re-written them in big words that mean exactly the same thing. The “big word” proverb “The stylus is more potent than the claymore”, as shown above refers to the proverb “The pen is mightier than the sword.” Why would this particular proverb be meaningful to me, and in that fashion? I looked up some stuff on Wikipedia: See &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_pen_is_mightier_than_the_sword"&gt;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_pen_is_mightier_than_the_sword&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;-Greek Playwright Euripides is said to have written, “The tongue is mightier than the blade.” &lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;-The biblical Epistle to the Hebrews, Chapter 4 verse 12 reads: "Indeed, the word of God is living and effective, sharper than any two-edged sword, penetrating even between soul and spirit, joints and marrow, and able to discern reflections and thoughts of the heart." &lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;-Thomas Jefferson wrote in a letter “Go on then in doing with your pen what in other times was done with the sword: show that reformation is more practicable by operating on the mind than on the body of man, and be assured that it has not a more sincere votary nor you a more ardent well-wisher than Yours.” (Paraphrased)&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;All in all, I think it is the love for reading satire that this proverb caught my eye, as well as watching comedy. You must know the joy of &lt;i&gt;“getting the joke&lt;/i&gt;” in a sitcom.&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;I have seen a time when warring newspaper columnists devoted their column space to hurl accusations at each other, writing statements such as: “His poisoned pen is full of innuendo” or “he is a &lt;i&gt;dyed-in-the-wool&lt;/i&gt; double-faced spin-master” (exaggeration mine.) It even happened between a Kenyan journalist and a critical diplomat several years ago. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;My Literature professor in college once said proverbs are used to &lt;i&gt;cushion the blow &lt;/i&gt;when cultural norms have been broken and elders are called upon to restore the image of society. Read &lt;u&gt;Lwanda Magere&lt;/u&gt;, a legendary play by Kenyan playwright Okoiti Omtatah. &lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoBodyTextIndent" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;Also, proverbs have been used at a time of courteous approach during marriage preparations. In my culture the bride’s family receives gratitude when appeased by the groom’s family. My brothers and I have witnessed the following exchanges between our wise men and the bride’s wise elders:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;-“We are here because we have seen a flower in your garden, and wish to befriend you before we pluck it” In context this means: Our son has met and loved a daughter of this home, and we would be glad to meet and know each other before we become one family. &lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;-“Muki niwe ukaga na uhoro” directly translated from the Kikuyu language to mean “It is the messenger who bears the news.” The messenger/visitor being the groom’s family. They must declare the intentions of their visit, albeit in loaded words.&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;Words must be stated to jumpstart any function, hence the occasional use of proverbs. It is the good opening statement that wins the attention of the crowd.&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;Lighter side:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;A speaker once started his message by saying: “I know you are trying to figure me out; I am also trying to figure out what kind of audience you are...” This brought laughter and breaking of ice. &lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;Here is a memorable quote from MLK on morals that I like:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;“The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice.”&lt;u1:p&gt;&lt;/u1:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:12;"  &gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-3291495251669050100?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/3291495251669050100/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=3291495251669050100&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3291495251669050100'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3291495251669050100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/06/what-raystylus-means.html' title='What “Raystylus” means.'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-3334844218491018501</id><published>2008-06-13T00:12:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-14T19:06:27.406-04:00</updated><title type='text'>AYCDIAYCD</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;I once read a book &lt;u&gt;AYCDIAYCD&lt;/u&gt;. Ok. Here it is: &lt;u&gt;All You Can Do is All You Can Do (But All You Can Do is Enough)&lt;/u&gt; by A.L Williams. Really? I believe so, yes. Syndicated radio talk show host Dave Ramsey mentioned this book the other day. The following is a statement I took out of this book:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;“The world is full of people playing at half or a third of their ability. If you go out there and do all you can do, you dramatically increase your chances of winning.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;What’s up with that? How about stretching to our &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;elastic&lt;/span&gt; limit? At least we can stretch ourselves that far...&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;So, my view is that one should go ahead and use what limits they have to lead a peaceable life; and &lt;i&gt;earn&lt;/i&gt; a living.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;My man Paul in one of the gospels in the bible says:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;“…with toil and labor we worked night and day, that we might not burden any of you.” 2 Thes 3:8. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Dude had skills in tent making, most of all for credibility and to finance his mission.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;There is fruitfulness in using our abilities very well, at least at work, school or community.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;AYCDIAYCD people do very well.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;On the lighter side: A warning sign seen near a police station for speeding offenders:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;“30 days hath September, April June and November; and so does the speed offender.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:12;"  &gt;*Slow down. Gas is not that cheap! Speeding fines doubled?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-3334844218491018501?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/3334844218491018501/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=3334844218491018501&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3334844218491018501'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3334844218491018501'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/06/aycdiaycd.html' title='AYCDIAYCD'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-5115523601876622589</id><published>2008-06-11T02:04:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-16T00:43:00.885-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Books and bookmen</title><content type='html'>Is it not unfair to think, that if something were to be hidden from you, it would &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;maybe&lt;/span&gt; be written in a book?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; Bibliophilia; love for books&lt;/span&gt;.  Can be cultivated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Read" audio books or carry a book with you to the doctor's office, the airport, for an oil change or wherever you go.  Think of lobbies as places, not to watch some reality tv show, but to read.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why, reading improves the quality of your life and sharpens your mental faculties.  Books help in word power and better sentence formation.  They grant confidence to a speaker.  They give substance to the thinker.  There is plentiful yield for the writer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;MLK is well read.  Listening to his speeches, I was amused by his illustrations on advancement of technology, whereby, in this modern age, a non-stop flight from LA to NY is so fast, that if you developed hiccups on take-off, you would &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;hic&lt;/span&gt; in LA and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;cup&lt;/span&gt; in NY! (Laugh.)  Such light moments helped him spread the message of change even in diversity. Content and character judgement, not color or race.  A dream come true.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Back to reading, start with small volumes.  Be not overzealous, for you don't want to burn out before you get the gem.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Try fiction, motivational books or biographies.  I love autobiographies.  Malcolm X has a classic. So does Augustine of Hippo.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Try reading from an area of interest.  War, peace, riches, poverty, how to...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Currently I'm reading Ernest Hemingway's "The Old Man and the Sea." Good literature. Another area of interest is readings in African slave trade across the Atlantic. Kunta Kinte is an icon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I believe 15 minutes is a moment long enough to read and comprehend.  Ah! your sub-conscious is soon sporting with the content as you work and take care of other things.  Must like the intellectual achievement that comes from a page on a book.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You need not worry about having to buy a book to read it.  Try Barnes &amp;amp; Noble, Borders or your County Library. In-fact, at the county library, you may borrow as many volumes as you wish, and renew your loan online when almost due. For free. If you were to pay a dime for each day late, consider it as a thank you for the good service afforded by the taxpayer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Make reading through a book-page a day your &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;modus operandi &lt;/span&gt;(way of operation.)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-5115523601876622589?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/5115523601876622589/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=5115523601876622589&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/5115523601876622589'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/5115523601876622589'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/06/books-and-bookmen.html' title='Books and bookmen'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-664571745024267724</id><published>2008-06-02T01:15:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-02T01:38:58.421-04:00</updated><title type='text'>meaninglessness and meaning</title><content type='html'>Pondering upon the words of Chomsky:&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Colorless green ideas sleep furiously&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;Chomsky looks at the inadequacy of probabilistic models of grammar, and the need for more structured models.&lt;br /&gt;Such a phrase is not unimaginable for we poets. There lies a beauty in finding meaning, or symbolically delving into the meaninglessness of things.&lt;br /&gt;Soyinka says something like:&lt;br /&gt;"...from &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ism&lt;/span&gt; to &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ism&lt;/span&gt; is &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;absolutism&lt;/span&gt;!"&lt;br /&gt;There is beauty in variation of language. Language being the word, connotation, nuances, signs, etc.&lt;br /&gt;There also lies beauty in the metaphysical: "God can take a stone yesterday, and hit a bird tomorrow."&lt;br /&gt;I heard someone say this some time back, and was filled with amusement at the idea, assuming the symbolism attached to an infinite being achieving the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;unprovable&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;There is meaning in everything. We just have to find it, don't we?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-664571745024267724?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/664571745024267724/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=664571745024267724&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/664571745024267724'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/664571745024267724'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/06/meaninglessness-and-meaning.html' title='meaninglessness and meaning'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-2967191266790606120</id><published>2008-05-17T02:35:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-17T02:59:21.420-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The True Self</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;"Be sure that it is not you that is mortal, but only your body. For that man whom your outward form reveals is not yourself; the spirit is the true self, not that physical figure which and be pointed out by your finger." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;i&gt;Cicero&lt;/i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;color:black;"  &gt;I like &lt;/span&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:12;color:black;"   &gt;this&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;color:black;"  &gt; Cicero! He is described by one source as &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;one of Rome's greatest orators and prose stylists.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those who know me know my love for speeches and rhetoric, and see why I like Cicero. O, that the spirit is the &lt;i&gt;true self! &lt;/i&gt;Forget the tangible and corruptible. Seek that which is incorruptible. It is as unseen as the spirit can be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, I have not found any pure school of reason and doctrine than the held by Paul of &lt;i&gt;Tarsus&lt;/i&gt;. Why, this guy is &lt;i&gt;meaner&lt;/i&gt; than Cicero and Augustine. I'll dedicate a page to him, as I progress in my trail of thought.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today, a comrade, in intellect, sought to know why I have not shared this blog with them. Said I, that just as I am gradually spinning creative yearn here, I'm sharing it moderation. The reservoir here (yours truly) has poems and discourse moderated by tall retaining walls, and narrow outlets.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;You bet a precious stone is best admired when slowly spun in light. Hence, the need to not &lt;i&gt;purge &lt;/i&gt;the source with an outburst, rather, may it be in moderation, quenching my fellows periodically.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Another of my fellows, a preacher and good bible scholar, tells me how thrilled he is to share scripture and true Christian doctrine. He even falls short in expressing the deepest of thoughts due to the narrow bottleneck availed for him to pour out teachings.  Too small a mouthpiece for too huge a crowd?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, press on, for you have not comprehended.  Thats when you truly pour out your &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;true self. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;And faith does the rest.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;I truly believe in the words written above, as I do many other.  Thanks to a word in season.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Raystylus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-2967191266790606120?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/2967191266790606120/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=2967191266790606120&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/2967191266790606120'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/2967191266790606120'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/05/spirit-is-true-self.html' title='The True Self'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-8241416952041741681</id><published>2008-05-14T00:52:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-14T01:07:29.389-04:00</updated><title type='text'>the quest for eloquence</title><content type='html'>Says Augustine:&lt;br /&gt;"Assuredly no science of letters can be so innate as the record of conscience, “that he is doing to another what from another he would be loth to suffer.” How deep are Thy ways, O God, Thou only great, that sittest silent on high and by an unwearied law dispensing penal blindness to lawless desires. In quest of the fame of eloquence, a man standing before a human judge, surrounded by a human throng, declaiming against his enemy with fiercest hatred, will take heed most watchfully, lest, by an error of the tongue, he murder the word “human being”; but takes no heed, lest, through the fury of his spirit, he murder the real human being."&lt;br /&gt;Augustine's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Confessions&lt;/span&gt;, 1:18&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Says I:&lt;br /&gt;In support of Augustine, many a time we tune the tongue to the wavelength of the mind, so that thoughts may flow eloquently, unperturbed.  The crime of syntactic slander is not one you easily get away with, and to some grammatical  buffs, you stand to be corrected, as one stands to be tried in a court of law. Has syntax an effect to morality?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-8241416952041741681?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/8241416952041741681/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=8241416952041741681&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/8241416952041741681'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/8241416952041741681'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/05/quest-for-eloquence.html' title='the quest for eloquence'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-6278535772109356785</id><published>2008-05-09T01:26:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-09T01:27:23.292-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Augustine</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:comic sans ms;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"...thanks be to You for Your gifts; but preserve them to me. For thus will You preserve me; and those things which You have given me shall be developed and perfected, and I myself shall be with You, for from You is my being."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Confessions&lt;/span&gt; of  Augustine.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-6278535772109356785?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/6278535772109356785/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=6278535772109356785&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/6278535772109356785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/6278535772109356785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/05/augustine.html' title='Augustine'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-7424771088170615829</id><published>2008-05-03T00:21:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-03T00:55:39.320-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Confessions</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Confessions:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;[1.5.6] “The house of my soul is too narrow for you to come in to me; let it be enlarged by you. It is in ruins; restore it.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;I can spend hours intently reading the autobiographic work of St. Augustine of Hippo. It is pristine, its words and expressions bearing the clarity of crystal. The passages bring out descriptive language in a brand new way to my intellect, and the ease at which he expresses his memorable experiences is outstanding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;How one can have such a burden of memory, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;yet be as very prolific&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt; as he is, is rare.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I see what he is talking about, and I guess I have a good old-fashioned envy for his good penmanship. It is with ease that you mount into the microcosm of his intelligent world view, and wish to stay there.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;There is a noted nourishment of mental faculties when one engulfs a piece as deep, rare, yet as old as his &lt;i&gt;Confessions.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-7424771088170615829?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/7424771088170615829/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=7424771088170615829&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/7424771088170615829'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/7424771088170615829'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/05/confessions.html' title='Confessions'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-3987961508200570474</id><published>2008-04-17T02:15:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-17T02:19:20.253-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wise Counsel</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;In the &lt;i&gt;Godfather, &lt;/i&gt;Don Corleone has a legal adviser.  He also has his good uncle, Don Tomassini, whom he journeys to for wise counsel. Just like his father Don Vito did. Even &lt;i&gt;Mafiosi &lt;/i&gt;have advisers.  Another philosophy noted among these bad guys is taking care of their families. In conversations, the Don Vito would inquire, "How is your family? Do you spend time with them? Does your wife make you happy?"  There is no abandon when it comes to family. That in itself gives them standards of goodness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My grandmother speaks of my good uncle (God bless his heart) who stood the gap in an outstanding manner among many nephews.  In his wise counsel came words of wisdom and a tranquility that put off any circumspection. He sought to unite people in brotherly love. He was a counselor to me too, in snippets that are deeply engraved in my memory.  It is said that one of my other uncles would tell him in Kikuyu, our ethnic language: "Niubataire" to mean, "You need to see me." Irony being, when he told my good uncle these words, he was actually expressing his need to speak with my good uncle.  And such may have been the case within the family and outside it.  His calm counsel was needful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The wise teacher, King Solomon writes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"A wise man will hear and increase learning,&lt;br /&gt;And a man of understanding will attain wise counsel,&lt;br /&gt;To understand a proverb and an enigma&lt;br /&gt;The words of the wise and their riddles."&lt;br /&gt;                                        Proverbs 1:5-6&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Who are my advisers? Who do I go to for wise counsel? I wrote down my list; detailed it was in my handwritten draft. Briefly put, my wife, my circle of friends, intellectual comrades back from collage days. Others for &lt;i&gt;socio&lt;/i&gt;-political dialogue, rhetoric and philosophy. Others, religious counsel. I also found out what value others say I add to them. It therefore seemed to me that wisdom is a principal thing, as the wise teacher will say.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Iconoclasts are good points of reference for wisdom.  Consider Jesus Christ. Consider Martin Luther King, Jr. Consider Malcolm X. Consider play character Eman in a play by Wole Soyinka, "The Strong Breed."  Let me not mention how each of their lives ended, save for Jesus, the Lion of the tribe of Judah.  He has gone beyond the grave, and become the real-time atonement for sin. He himself, in Apostle Paul's epistles, is the atonement of sin for sin. Jesus speaks of greater things than had been spoken before, and truly, the way to life is through the Lamb of God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PJ Daniels and Son say, "Good morals is good economics." I couldn't agree better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have come to the conclusion that in their own way, each of the people mentioned in this blog have been good teachers and wise men. I look at their way of thinking and the unfolding of their purpose with deliberateness and expectation, and borrow from how they take the burden and live a life of accomplishment.&lt;/p&gt;  *** "A man of understanding will obtain wise counsel" ***&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-3987961508200570474?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/3987961508200570474/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=3987961508200570474&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3987961508200570474'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/3987961508200570474'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/04/wise-counsel.html' title='Wise Counsel'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-8362643545029971613</id><published>2008-04-15T00:29:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-16T00:50:05.158-04:00</updated><title type='text'>THE SWIFT</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Zoom&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt; was no word&lt;br /&gt;for break-neck speed;&lt;br /&gt;carload in silence&lt;br /&gt;hearts clung to throats.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Speed-stick hit 80&lt;br /&gt;nodding on ninety;&lt;br /&gt;swift lines outside&lt;br /&gt;yet far from home.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Farmlands so vast&lt;br /&gt;deceived the eye;&lt;br /&gt;Landscape so green&lt;br /&gt;Received the sigh.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Trees madly ran&lt;br /&gt;Behind with lines;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Black carpet slid&lt;br /&gt;Beneath four wheels.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beloved’s day&lt;br /&gt;when clock struck twelve;&lt;br /&gt;sweet wedding bells&lt;br /&gt;Now dwells in bliss.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;        &lt;/span&gt;Raystylus,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt; 07/21/05&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-8362643545029971613?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/8362643545029971613/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=8362643545029971613&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/8362643545029971613'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/8362643545029971613'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/04/swift.html' title='THE SWIFT'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-6857905205637130960</id><published>2008-04-14T02:19:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-15T00:51:42.420-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wasted Years</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like grass so dry&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Like sour milk;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;I see the &lt;i&gt;stale&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Creative juice.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;I yearn for days&lt;br /&gt;Of canvassed hues;&lt;br /&gt;When stylus scribbled&lt;br /&gt;Celestial prose.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Was cool for jokes&lt;br /&gt;With humor lines;&lt;br /&gt;Clock ticks but sticks&lt;br /&gt;at 3:40!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;Must dust the tools&lt;br /&gt;And tools must work;&lt;br /&gt;Revive the trade&lt;br /&gt;That mustn’t fade.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Georgia;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:12;"  &gt;        Raystylus,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; 10/1/06.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wrote it a few years ago, one of the few that one turns back to and gets their consciousness aroused.  Let me not interpret my own poem. Readers have a third angle that is interesting for observation.  I'll compare it with what Shakespeare says in a sonnet "I summon up rememberance of things past, I sigh the lack of many a thing I sought..."  The protagonist feels the brunt of youthful waste.  Don't we once in a lifetime get there and feel like our force is spent?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He cleverly ends his sonnet "But if the while I think on thee, dear friend, All losses are restored and sorrows end."  I think friends are good people to have, because at times such as these, their effort is significant.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver." Intellectual friends are good to converse with in times of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rusty-dusty&lt;/span&gt; me, metaphorically speaking.  Books too. There is a surpassing depth in communing with great minds.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ngugi wa Thiongo, in his fictional works, is prolific in his portrayal of his main characters. Consider &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Weep Not, Child&lt;/span&gt;.  The spoken may not do justice when lifted from the text. One would just have to experience this by cracking open the pages.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;re&lt;/span&gt;-discovered Augustine St. Hippo, and upon diving into the depths of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Confessions, &lt;/span&gt;my sensibilities leapt, upon each expression, and I remained aloft in expectation as I engulfed his content.  Indeed I reaped the fruit of laboring upon each sentence.  Beautiful autobiographical work.  Recommend that to a biography lover.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I like the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;doublespeak&lt;/span&gt;  proverb,  "The stylus is more potent than the claymore."   The stylus must not stay in the scabbard, wet, dusty, yet rusty.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Raystylus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Georgia;font-size:10;"  &gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-6857905205637130960?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/6857905205637130960/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=6857905205637130960&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/6857905205637130960'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/6857905205637130960'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/04/wasted-years_13.html' title='Wasted Years'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6303459048374360533.post-1867843120464506587</id><published>2008-04-13T03:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-13T03:03:07.602-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Prolific Dias</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;I &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;think&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;i philosophise;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia;"&gt;i speak art.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would not be just if I was committed to art for &lt;i&gt;life's&lt;/i&gt; sake and had no blog spot. At the early hours of this day, i open a reservoir with a &lt;i&gt;free-fall&lt;/i&gt; of words and thoughts, in moderation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They said the stylus is more potent than the claymore. I find it practical. I have &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error"&gt;dichotomized&lt;/span&gt; my sensibilities towards literature and rhetoric. A genuine love for poetry, short stories and speeches is deeply embedded in my fiber. A need to cultivate poetic justice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I look forward to letting my art be prolific, to which I am committed and eager.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;                                                                                                                       &lt;br /&gt;Raystylus&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: Georgia;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6303459048374360533-1867843120464506587?l=raystylus.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/feeds/1867843120464506587/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6303459048374360533&amp;postID=1867843120464506587&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/1867843120464506587'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6303459048374360533/posts/default/1867843120464506587'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://raystylus.blogspot.com/2008/04/prolific-dias.html' title='Prolific Dias'/><author><name>raystylus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12273168251167077440</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_pGHwh-sdo08/SAQd_ewk0RI/AAAAAAAAAAc/6pDtXXJat0I/S220/van+Gogh+-+GalleryPlayer.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
